and then?

We dread certain situations because we almost certainly know this is the point where the good, bad and ugly gets flushed out. Last night was one of those. Initially, i was planning on absorbing some culture, borrowed Syu's Bulgakov. That didn't materialize as i played a prank on her about the lingerie party. Which i shouldn't have- being all 'partied' up isn't a good thing when there REALLY isn't gonna be a party! Well, we then decided on having some wine...then thought of topping it up with strawberries...and finally asking some friends to join in (we were sure that none would show up). But Hari showed up...which was surprising. For many reasons. Ritz had to layan some guests who had just arrived from India and he had to wait till they went to bed. Dipta was at a club with 'white people'...(identity crisis) "clubbing with white people...is rather odd" "dee, you do realise you are 'white'" "no...ok i mean...i'm just saying its soo different from clubbing with you guys.In a good way"

Both hari and ritz aren't wine drinkers, syu and i invested a huge sum on our wine- Chablis...thats a really good wine, the kind that doesn't leave you with a headache or a hangover. The high is beautiful and you can keep drinking...all night. We had a bottle each, the guys were surprised, they didn't think we could both down a bottle each and still be sober...ok semi high and totally jolly. And i parted company with my bottle of JD to Hari and Ritz.Dear JD, it was good while it lasted...hahahaha.

Things were good and everyone went down memory lane...and then we moved on to sex and then some bedroom secrets (bad move). When i'm in the company of the right kind, i engage/ crack lame jokes/ get all hyper, When the company i have is unappealing, i don't talk. Infact i just observe. Which is what i was doing last night, Until...

Hari said something uncalled for, offensive, judgemental, shallow and totally inappropriate.

"you know, when you have anal sex and the woman enjoys it, you just know that she's a slut"

How dare you?...seriously...

To which i countered:

"what does that say about the person she's having it with?,you have no right to judge anyone in the bedroom, if your partner shares his/her fantasies with you and wants you to be a part of it, you should be honoured. That just shows that he/she is comfortable enough with you...its all about trust and comfort. You've got to remember that she's making herself vulnarable by letting you in on it.Infact you shouldn't discuss this with anyone but her...honestly hari, that is just shallow man"

A slut?...What year are we in? 1450?

SO i made a bitch statement about why is it sex is better with NON-ASIAN men. Didn't realise i check-mated myself.

Fuck...Everyone got excited

"i disagree,but do tell...come on..."-Hari

"Hari how can you disagree unless you've had sex with men?"-Me

"VVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVV!!!"-Syu

"And she finally speaks..."-Ritz

SO i didn't elaborate further, just excused myself and headed to the bathroom.Tried navigating the conversation to more friendly pastures after i got back.Worked.

Well, yes there are certain things people don't know about me, no matter how close or long we know each other. Syu seemed keen (she's got that smirk), she bugged me this morning about my statement.Yes love you are my best friend. It just wasn't important enough to be mentioned.It carries no weight at this point of time.Its left behind in a different dimension.

TO all you very curious people, my past isn't as colourful as you'd want it to be. I'm not secretive, its just unimportant.

Borders...i love em. Shields, even better.

p/s: Psychs, Chablis and strawberries?