One of those

I believe Privacy exsists only to be intruded.

We wouldn't know whats privacy if it were never invaded.

Its when you don't demand it, you get it...because you are an open book with nothing more left to discover. Now its eternal bliss-no one bothers you.

Reena said something brilliant "the only reason i'm still with you is because i still don't know you and i won't leave until i know you, its because you keep me interested"

Excellent, now people leave because they know you.

If only all relationships were this simple.

Well Bee Kins and I just helped CJ shift her stuff over, so this would mean CJ REENA and BEE KINS are officially housemates.
So after working out my biceps, forceps (no its not a muscle)and triceps i sat back with a smoke and reminiscenced over the times i moved and why i moved and with whom i moved..(now i sound like a nomad).

Sometimes best friends make the worst housemates...seriously.
Syu and I are living examples. We openly admit that our relationship was much better when we didn't live together.
*yes we sound like we are married, and yes reena keeps saying we are like one of those couples who've been married really long*

I guess,when it comes to living with someone you love unconditionally i.e: best friends, expectations are different-if not the same maybe higher. Then we tend to take each other for granted. Soon we'd be at each other's throats for the smallest things because its not acceptable for one of us to fuck up.
Next comes the 'How do i do this delicately?'...even for the smallest things and then you'd choose not to say it and over time it brews and then a fucking Hydrogen bomb is let loose.

Syu and I were lucky in that aspect, we could tell each other off to our faces and yet be fine. The only reason things weren't as peachy is because we realised that we took each other for granted and in turn it put a miniscule strain on our relationship for a bit.
Yes and till today we live together-its god's way of punishing us-'Karma'

Yes so the point i was trying to make was, sometimes just because you are best of pals or chums doesn't mean moving in together is a party. Its hard work...very hard work.
Boils down to the small things like communication, understanding and the most basic- rules and privacy.

Everything around us is based on rules. When we follow rules, damage control is in place.
Thus making everyone happy with the outcome of whatever unsavoury situation thats bugging them.
Its quite simple- Rules are guidelines, when we have guidelines-we'd know our limits. We'd have borders.

Animals understood that with territorial pissing!